Friday, April 15, 2011

the guy ; relationship.

It is exactly like buying a shoes. a dream shoes. we have plenty of options for example; heels, flats, pumps etc. so we go looking for the right shoes.

some people got so lucky that they find it at the first store that they entered. for some other people, it may takes longer. we walked every floors, visit every single stores, sometime we even go back to the previous store and then keep going to the one after another. often we failed to meet our perfect desire's match. sometime we finally got fascinated by one. or in some unfortunate time, we just have to pick one, not because we like it nor because they are attractive. merely because we, after all need a pair of shoes.

and then, this is the story we often, heard.....

It appeared to be beautiful, perfect shape, perfect color. dream shoes! but when you try it on, it does not fit well. too big or too tight. but because it is the one that we dream to have, we create excuses...

'i ate too much today, my feet expand. it should be fine tomorrow'

'owh it's the material. wear it couple of times, they would fit well'

so we bought it. we put it on. it feels like victory. we feel pretty. can't be more happier! life is so beautiful. 'i got new shoes! exactly like how i wanted it to be! tee hee'! :D

but it does not take longer than ten minutes or farther than 100 meters when we started to feel uncomfortable. as we walk, it start to hurt. the pain become obvious steps by steps further. but we make believe that it is our size and it fit well. we pretend that we are so happy walking in those while we actually suffer the pain every seconds.

some times ago, I had to wear one of my shoes 12 times before it finally become perfectly fit. do not imagine how did it hurt. some take months. and some just have to, in the end accept the truth, so they either dumped it out or they just give it away to others.

lesson is, pick your size! choose the one that fit you well. because if you don't, you gonna have to suffer lots lots of pain. sometime it worth it. often, it is not. no matter how fascinating it is, if it's not fit, leave it for others. yours is out there yet to be discovered.

even if it means a flat moderately looking white color gladiator. if it fits well then why not? :/ yes i have one. the one that always make me comfortable in every steps that i take.

owh

and owh because i bought a beautiful shoes today




it doesn't fit me that well but I'm a risk taker *actually i can't resist good looks!!* :P so I don't mind to suffer a few times for it. heheheheh.

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